Created for Connection
October 10th & 11th 2025
A Created for Connection retreat offers couples a unique opportunity to deepen their bond, rebuild trust, and create lasting emotional connections.
About the Retreat
The truth is, loving well is hard—especially in a world that constantly pulls us in different directions. Even when we are intentional about nurturing our most important relationships, we can find ourselves stuck in a cycle of misunderstandings, hurts, and unmet longings. Yet we know that God wants to meet us and help us in this place.
Created for Connection offers a space to pause, refocus, and pair your intentionality with proven guidance to restore and deepen intimacy and understanding. Hosted at 7th Seed, a working farm and retreat center, this picturesque setting invites couples to slow down, reconnect, and experience renewal in a peaceful, grounded environment.
In some relationships, partners feel they could use some “fine-tuning.” In other relationships, partners feel an adjustment to the entire “culture” of the relationship is needed. This retreat serves couples across this spectrum—from those seeking small adjustments to those looking to reignite their connection and heal.
Grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the retreat integrates the wisdom of Jesus, the Author of Love, and demonstrates how the best of modern couples psychology aligns beautifully with God’s timeless truths about love and connection.
Throughout the retreat, we will guide you and your partner through the first four of seven key conversations drawn from the Created for Connection framework (“Part II Retreats” will be announced soon!).
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Recognizing the “Demon Dialogues”: Identify negative interaction patterns that create distance between you and your partner.
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Finding the Raw Spots: Uncover the hidden vulnerabilities that fuel conflict and misunderstanding.
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Revisiting a Rocky Moment: Reflect on past conflicts to foster understanding and healing.
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Hold Me Tight: Learn how to create a secure, comforting connection during vulnerable moments.
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Forgiving Injuries: Address and heal emotional wounds to rebuild trust and safety.
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Bonding Through Sex and Touch: Deepen your physical and emotional intimacy.
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Keeping Your Love Alive: Develop strategies to nurture and sustain your relationship long-term.
This retreat is more than a workshop; it’s an investment in your relationship. Participating alongside other couples creates a shared experience that builds community and fosters mutual encouragement. By engaging in these meaningful conversations, you and your partner will gain tools and insights to navigate challenges, strengthen your bond, and create a foundation for a more secure and fulfilling future together.
Join us and take a step toward creating the connection you both deserve.
Time & Location
October 10 (2:30pm) – Ocotber 11 (4:30pm) 2025
7th Seed Lodge – Huntington, Vermont
Pricing, What’s Included?
The total cost for the retreat is $650 per couple. There’s a 4% discount if you choose to pay by check or ACH (details below). This price covers the full retreat experience, all materials, and accommodations at 7th Seed Lodge on Friday night and guidance from experienced Couples Therapists. Meals include Friday dinner, Saturday breakfast and lunch, along with snacks and refreshments throughout the retreat.
Is this workshop for us?
Great question. When you’re taking an intentional step to grow or heal your relationship, you want a good outcome. Hold Met Tight® / Created for Connection® retreats are informed by Emotionally Focused – the gold standard in couples therapy. EFT is associated with very good outcomes. That said, our retreats are not considered therapeutic interventions and there are some circumstances that may indicate that a retreat with us should wait. Please know that these concerns exist on a spectrum of severity and don’t necessarily indicate that a Hold Me Tight/Created for Connection retreat is not for you. Some discernment together with a retreat facilitator would be helpful if the following are concerns in your relationship:
1. Affairs
EFT retreats are not recommended for couples where there is an active, ongoing affair, particularly if one partner is unwilling to end the affair. Repairing one attachment relationship becomes nearly impossible when there is a competing attachment relationship. While significant healing is possible after an affair if both partners are committed to rebuilding their relationship, an undisclosed or ongoing affair makes genuine healing unfeasible. If both parties are ready to repair, our retreats can provide meaningful support in the healing process.
2. Abuse
Abuse exists on a spectrum, ranging from isolated incidents during moments of heightened conflict to patterns of deliberate, strategic control and domination. If your relationship involves significant emotional, physical, or sexual violence, or if abuse is being used to maintain power and control, our retreats are not appropriate. The workshops are designed to foster vulnerability, which requires a foundation of physical, emotional, and sexual safety. For those experiencing severe abuse, we encourage contacting one of the facilitators for resources and support. If the abuse is less severe or situational, please reach out to a facilitator to discuss whether the retreat may be suitable for your situation.
3. Differing Agendas
Couples may come to a retreat with differing levels of clarity about their goals. It is completely normal to feel uncertain about what might happen or what you hope to achieve. However, if one partner is determined to end the relationship while the other wants to repair it, the retreat may not be a productive experience. That said, transformative experiences are possible even in difficult circumstances..
4. Addiction
Addiction, whether related to alcohol, drugs, gambling, or pornography, can range from casual use to severe dependency. In some cases, couples can address problematic use and behavior during the retreat. However, if the addiction is severe and requires immediate or primary treatment, it is recommended to address the addiction first before attending Hold Me Tight® or Created for Connection®. If you’re unsure about the severity of the addiction, reach out to one of the presenters for guidance.
5. Untreated Psychological Disorders
Some untreated (or under-treated) psychological conditions such as PTSD, OCD, major depression, or debilitating anxiety can hinder participation and limit the benefits of a retreat. However, if these conditions are stable and actively being managed with ongoing counseling or psychiatric care, the retreat can be a valuable tool for addressing the dynamic between mental health concerns and your relationship. Please contact us if you have questions about whether your situation is suitable.
If you have any concerns or questions about whether this retreat is the right fit for you, please contact one of the facilitator at jon@flourishvt.com. We are here to help you make the best decision for your unique situation.
Registration Details:
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Registration Steps
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Step 1: Submit Payment (Choose Credit Card or Discounted Check/ACH)
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Step 2: Complete the brief Couple’s Questionnaire (Each Partner Must Submit Separately)
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Step 3: Once payment and both partners’ questionnaires are received, your spot is reserved! We will email you to confirm.
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Confirmation and Placement Policy
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You are not fully registered until both payment and questionnaires are received.
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Registrations are processed in the order completed.
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Register Early: This retreat has sold-out each time it has been offered. Also, preferred rooms (i.e. 3rd floor spacious lofts) go to the first four couples who are fully registered. (We can’t think of a fairer way to assign rooms!). If you sign up later, don’t worry – the whole building is beautiful and well-appointed.
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Refund Policy
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We understand that life happens—and sometimes plans need to change. To honor both your commitment and the planning that goes into creating a meaningful retreat experience, we offer a tiered refund policy:
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Cancel more than 30 days before the retreat: Full refund minus $50 amin fee
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15 to 30 days before the retreat: 50% refund.
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Less than 15 days before the retreat: Unfortunately, we’re unable to offer a refund
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If you’re unable to attend, you’re welcome to transfer your spot to a friend or colleague (just let us know in advance), or we’ll do our best to fill your spot from the waitlist. If we’re able to, we may be able to offer a partial refund minus an administrative fee.
